Current Age: 41
I didn’t have any early experiences with this, which is why it caught me off guard when I realised I was into it.
It started in my first serious relationship in my early 20s.
She was very relaxed as a person — not the type to pretend or try to act perfect. At first, I didn’t think much of it. It was just part of being comfortable around each other.
But as time went on, I started noticing how different that felt compared to everything else. There was no effort to hide normal things, including passing gas. It wasn’t made into a joke, and it wasn’t awkward — it was just normal.
One moment stands out. We were just sitting around watching something, completely relaxed, and she farted without even reacting. No apology, no embarrassment, nothing.
And for some reason, that stuck with me more than anything else.
It wasn’t the fart itself — it was what it meant. She was completely comfortable around me.
After that, I started noticing that those moments made me feel closer to her. Like I was seeing the real version of someone, not the filtered version people usually show.
Over time, I realised I was actually attracted to that.
Even now, it’s not something I think about outside of a relationship. It’s tied to that feeling of trust and openness. Women farting in that context doesn’t feel awkward to me — it feels real.
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